This is an offering I'm just adding to my site but have been working with quite a bit recently. There is so much I plan to share on this topic, but here is a brief outline of what is involved and how to sign up for the initial reading.
*There will be an intake form where you can share as little or as much information as you would like.
*I will run the two charts and do an analysis of the things that may have affected the relationship in challenging or positive ways and create a video reading for you.
*After you have had a chance to watch the video and process the information there are two options.
- A 1 hour live session via zoom or in person.
- or 1 hour of asynchronous communication via email, voxer, marco polo or an additional video response.
Additional live session packages will also be available. 5 sessions for $500 or 10 sessions for $900
Sign up for the initial reading here.
I will email with the intake form when I receive the order notification.
*Please note, I am not a therapist and this is not therapy work. If significant trauma has been experienced this offering may not be for you unless you are currently working with a therapist.
Some of the why and the story behind this work.
For many of us, the time after a break up, divorce, or loss can be the catalyst for epic transformations.
Life is no longer as it was, how can it become something more, something better. How can lessons be learned from past experiences to move forward into something that is beyond what we might have imagined.
There is time and space needed for heartbreak, anger, bewilderment, hurt, tears, rage and feeling lost… whatever comes up has a need to be honored.
AND
A choice can be made to expand. To break apart what wasn’t working. To look at conditioning, to look at harmful past patterns, to see where, in your own actions, or inactions, you contributed to the relationship that was.
It could have been words that weren’t said, conversations that weren’t had, judgements that were made on false stories, resentment that built unreparable fissures, settling for good enough because nothing better was ever seen, or simply blind spots. It’s hard to know what you don’t know.
The work I did after my last divorce was work I could have done after my first divorce, but I didn’t know any of what I know now.
Through my relationship work and human design I have greater understanding and compassion for myself and past partners. I see many of the blind spots I had. The things I didn’t know that could have helped inform better ways of communicating, deeper acceptance, more confidence.
My work and guidance is built on my lived experience as well as the trainings I have taken and the people I work with.
We all have unique lived experiences. And I’m skilled at finding patterns, for intuiting issues, for feeling energy and holding space for your unique experience.
It feels weird to say, but a part of me gets excited when I hear someone is going through a big break up or a divorce. I see opportunity for something never experienced before. A choice and a chance to expand into the unknown, while also sitting with the challenges and honoring whatever comes up.
There is no final stamp of “healed” while we are still experiencing this life. We will continue to be broken apart over and over, always with a chance to expand and grow. Like a tree taking seed in a crack in the sidewalk - the space made when something is broken open allows for something unexpected. And just as unexpectedly awful things can happen, completely unexpected amazing things can happen as well. Our brains simply cannot come up with every possible iteration of what we might experience in our lives.
When it felt like I’d lost almost everything, I hung on to this idea like a life preserver. Within a few days I went from having a home, a spouse, property, a future full of dreams with the loved ones I thought were my family… to having none of those things.
It broke me open like nothing ever had and I made a choice to dig deep and tear apart anything else that was built on unstable foundations, faulty patterns, and unaligned actions.
I did a lot of self work and worked with a few different people in a number of different modalities. Diving into human design first for myself and then later studying to be able to offer this to others was and continues to be one of the best tools I have for deeper understanding and more compassion.
It is a system that guides one to find their inner wisdom, a blue print for finding where the deepest conditioning and false stroies can live, a way of accepting those things about the self that feel true and maybe have often felt “wrong” by societal standards.
