Even if we think "I'm single, I'm not in a relationship right now", we are in relationship to ourselves, to the world around us, to nature, to family, to friends, to our pets. The way we are in relationship to one thing does not mean that is how we are in relationship to everything else. I don't agree with the saying "how we do one thing is how we do anything", particularly when it comes to being in relationships. We may be affected by an internal story that affects our partner, but doesn't affect our friends. We may be more forgiving with a sibling in a way we would never be with a friend.

Often people have kind and generous relationships with others but don't offer the same compassion to themselves.

I've been on a journey to find aligned relationship with all of these different aspects. The foundation to me is relationship with Self.

The more compassionate I am with myself, the more forgiving I am of myself, the more compassionate and forgiving I am of others in a deep and authentic way.

When I hold good boundaries with myself, I build self-trust and that allows me to have good boundaries with others. When I see ways that I've been conditioned and past stories that I've believed, it is easier for me to see in others the stories they've created and the stories they've believed.

Human design has been one of the most valuable tools.

It's been the easiest way to essentially confirm things about myself that I know to be true and to see the areas of growth through compassionate eyes.

There is a lot of information out there about human design. I have my own way of viewing it, aspects that really resonate with me and aspects of it that I absolutely do not agree with. I do tend to have a very flexible nature though and don't feel like the rigid definitions a lot of people hold are really as rigid as they seem. It all takes practice though.

If you're on a journey of growth and want some support, I'm here to help! My goal is to hold space for you to feel more empowered to use what works for you, to try new things and keep an open mind out what might be possible.

I believe there is far greater potential available to us that what our limited minds can imagine.