For day 19, I'm going to share some things to look for if you are a undefined sacral type and in relationship with another undefined sacral type.
Types without sacral definition are manifestors, projectors and reflectors. (generators and manifesting generators have defined sacral centers)
Only about 30% of the population (or less even) have an undefined sacral center. The vast majority have defined sacral centers and therefore the narrative is often that "this is how people should be".
I think often undefined sacral types can get together and feel a level of kinship in how different they feel from everyone else.
When living in a world where most people have that center defined it can be easy to be around that energy out in public or at work but then go home and want to relax and be away from all the doing. The energy of a fellow undefined sacral partner may feel so lovely to just be with and not feel pressure to be doing or working or over-energized.
(this is in context of the sacral center only - the head center and root centers are pressure centers and create different potential pressures)
And with undefined centers... this is also where conditioning can be held. There may be gender stereotypes that feel at play that can create tension and certain expectations or feelings of "I should do this". People may push themselves to burnout repeatedly because they feel like they need to work hard to provide for their family or they need to do all the things because that's what a "good wife" does. Patterns that can lead to resentment, exhaustion and burnout for both people.
In this topic, I am largely speaking to two people living together. Could be in partnership or could be roommates - the aspect of being out in the and then coming home to a shared space with shared chores/responsibilities.
This is where communication really is important.
Like... really important.
It is so important to make sure that each person is clear on where their bandwidth is and that can change daily. Resting before burnout is really important and both people need to be supported in that realm. (And rest can look different for different people) If it is financially possible, it could be the kind of thing where a 3rd party is hired to help with different aspects: cooking, cleaning, a nanny to help with childcare.
Looking at ways that discussion household chores are based upon energy levels not who's "day it is" to do xyz.
The level of understanding that these two partners can have is very high - there can also be a lot of conditioning and expectations and stories about what life "should" look like. Being able to dig in and discuss that with each person being able to honor and respect what their partner's energy levels are like is an amazing foundation for a successful relationship (between anyone really, not just two undefined sacral types!)
With every type, there are so many different configurations of profiles, gates and centers. For example: There are 4 total motors in the HD chart and a projector or manifestor can have 3 out of the 4 motors defined, giving them different ways of operating than someone that has no motors.
None of this takes in to account things like... diet, exercise, overall wellbeing, emotional support from community/family/friends etc, all of which can affect someone's energy levels.
In summary, two undefined sacral people need to be able to communicate with each other, be aware of conditioning, expectations or judgements and honor rest when it is needed and find solutions when both people are low in energy, not look to blame or push the other partner to potentially burnout but to have compassion and understanding.
If you're in relationship (partner, parent/child, coworker) do you know about your and your partner's sacral definition? If so, what is your perspective/experience?
Don't know? You can run a free individual chart here or a free composite chart here.
