For day 25, I'll a bit about the 45-21 electromagnetic connection.
Another connection with some potential challenges or opportunities!
There can be a push pull between these two energies that can create an interesting dynamic, for partnerships where money is involved in particular, is how it is often taught. But when zooming out a little and being less specific, I feel like you can see how the energy can also be really challenging between parent and child.
The gate 45 is the gate of "royalty" and can bring with it some queen/king like energy and has to do with distribution of resources, it is also considered the gatherer. The gate 21 has to do with control - think of the treasurer or CFO, the managing of the resources and is considered the hunter.
Two very similar roles - the 45 coming from the throat center and the 21 coming from the will center. When feeling in to it, if not discussed openly, there can be that tension of the will wanting to exert it's control and the throat wanting to tell the other how to manage the resources.
Both have value, how can the resources be discussed and understood so both people feel like they have a say and both feel like they have control? It is sometimes suggested that a 3 party be involved to help manage the finances! I suppose that could work, but I also think it is possible that other solutions could be made. If each has their own income stream and their own bank accounts, it might be easier for each to just manage their own and be very transparent with any joint expenses, etc. Some couples may not find it to be an issue at all though. One person may feel more inclined to be in charge and the other may wish to spend their energy elsewhere.
I have the gate 45, my partner does not have the 21. I have a good friend that does have the 21 and they are one of the only people I have loaned a semi-large amount of money to. It felt comfortable, there were good boundaries and they paid me back in a way that oddly helped me to manage my resources. I had had money when they needed it and then when they were repaying the loan It worked really well for me. I was fascinated to see we had that connection considering I'd never had that dynamic with a friend before. It worked for us. Clear communication and honoring agreements made us both grateful for the opportunity to practice. It feels like a great way of seeing those energies play out - I had gathered resources and distributed them, my friend managed and controlled the resources and redistributed back to me. Fascinating right?
Do you or your partner have the gate 45 or 21? If so, what are your experiences?
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